Regrets.... Got Any?
Today the thought popped into my head, while walking, about regret.... I've heard both sides with this topic.... There's the one side that says
And they are okay with this
But then I've also heard the other side that says:
Okay maybe not that extreme but there are people who do have regrets. Some says that it's good to have regrets. Others says that you shouldn't regret anything ....
Me? I don't really know where I stand with regret. On the one hand I think that if you regret something it can be a preventative measure for the future towards decisions similar to the one you previously made. On the other hand, Regret by definition is to "Feel sorrow or remorse" (dictionary.com) for. And maybe your life wouldn't be where it is now had it not been for the decisions that you made.....
Thoughts?
I know this is yesterday's blog but to me regret can be healthy if it propels you to do something you wish you should have done like finish school. But if all you do is use regret to stay focused on the negative aspects of what could have been. That is not healthy or wise
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